Cover of Adult Children of Alcoholics (Expanded Edition)

Adult Children of Alcoholics (Expanded Edition)

“Book on the right started me on a path of healing. Good luck.”
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Why it is worth your time

Adult Children of Alcoholics is Janet Woititz's 1983 book on the traits that people raised in alcoholic homes carry into adult life: guessing at what normal is, difficulty trusting, fear of criticism and a need for control. Woititz was a counselor with a doctorate from Rutgers who ran a treatment institute in New Jersey. The 1990 expanded edition adds material on other dysfunctional families, and the book has sold around 1.8 million copies. Chamath posted a photo of it in June 2020 and said it started him on a path of healing. He has spoken publicly about his father's alcoholism, so this is the most personal book on his list. It suits readers who grew up in a similar home and want a short, plain place to start. The caveat is that it is a 1983 counseling text, expanded in 1990, and a 1995 study found Woititz's traits, drawn from her clinic, did not hold up in a general sample.

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